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How to Make a Woman Interested in You By Arunraj V.S. | 28-10-2008 http://www.articlesbase.com

Talking to women is an easy job if you know how to be the master of communication skills. Relationships is all about communicating, about expressing your views and feelings in the right manner. After you have broken the ice with your girl, you need to sustain her interest in you.

Get her engaged in a conversation with you. Get her interested in you.

What do you talk about? Do you talk about achievements? Oh yes, sure you can. Women dig achievements. Do you talk about that mole on your back?. May be, she might find it cute. Or can you talk about your future plans. She might love the fact that you are progressive in your thoughts. Do you talk about your hobbies? She could find it interesting and engrossing.

To strike the wavelength with her, you need to find out what could possibly connect with her. It is fine if you have a plan, a basic blue print as to how you set the conversation. But it also happens that you might have rehearsed something and the conversation goes the other way... but still you could be in control of the conversation. Here's how:

Keep your tongue in control: If you want to develop the relationship to the next level, then the first thing is not to talk much. Don't monopolize the conversation. In a rush to impress your woman, you are simply making the woman bored. There was this friend of mine who had arranged for a date with this lissome lass from Kansas, who is a friend of my sister. This guy had just bought a latest model of Chevrolet(don't ask me which model, he knows it better, he is a car fanatic).

So impressed was he with his choice that he went on and on about his purchase thinking that she would be interested. But the girl's only interest was limited to taking a ride with him. My sister said that this girl was actually wanted to slam the burger, she was nibbling on in his mouth to shut him up. Of course she had a ride with him in his brand new vehicle but she could not be sure that she was interested in his company.

Don't monopolize the conversation by going on and on. You are not impressing by talking to women on topics which bore them endlessly. She is looking you, nodding her head and smiling at you. But her mind is somewhere else, though it looks as if she is all ears.(they are good at this, they are exceptionally good at faking!). She is wondering when you will stop and when make your grand exit. If you really want to impress her, get her talking.

Maintain a proper talk/listen ratio. A best thing would be to talk on a topic for three-five minutes and then put a check on yourself. Ask her for her opinion or just pause to let her talk. Listen to her more than you talk. Listen to what she has to say. It is ironical but people think you are a great speaker if you listen to them. Stop worrying about what you are going to say next in the conversation. Don't be uptight, just go with the flow. Try to visualize or "feel" what she's saying.

Author: Arunraj V.S.

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